Love with a Western woman: A guide for Japanese men

In print and on the Kindle. Also currently available to borrow from the Kindle Lending Library.

Do you want to be successful with women?
Date and romance them with confidence and charm?
And be fantastic in bed?!

Whether you want romance, love, dating, sex, or marriage, this book will help you get it!

“Love with a Western woman” is a funny and entertaining guide for Japanese men who want to understand the international women of today, and find out how to please them … in every way!

Based on interviews with 150 Western women who shared their intimate desires and dreams as well as their experiences and expectations, this guidebook teaches Japanese men how to develop and maintain happy, healthy relationships throughout their lives. Full of quotes from the women who were interviewed, and interspersed with photographs of Western women and the Japanese men they adore, this book will coach and inspire you along the way as you search for love.

You will learn how to:

  • be more attractive to women
  • let women know you like them
  • be a “gentleman”
  • create dates to remember
  • avoid misunderstandings and mishaps
  • propose marriage just like in the movies
  • ensure that she always feels special
  • make a happy home together
  • be an amazing and considerate lover, and even
  • make your penis look bigger

And if you’re already in a relationship with a Western woman, this book will help you improve that relationship by giving you a better understanding of her mind and her body. “Love with a Western woman” will also help you with your relationships with Japanese women!

Find out what women want and how you can give it to them … become an international ambassador for love!


ISBN 978-0-9573282-1-1


“ … very detailed and extremely instructional … large dollops of honesty and humor top every page like whipped cream and the writing is fast-paced, friendly and enormous fun … avoids generalizations, skepticism and cynicism like the plague … Pover’s book is encouraging and positive throughout — and she herself comes off at times as head cheerleader for the Japanese Male Team … ” — Japan Times

“Crammed with practical, direct, and laugh-out-loud tips … this is the ultimate field guide that no heterosexual J-man should ever leave home without.” — Kansai Scene

“ … guides Japanese men through every stage of a relationship, from the very first date to marriage and beyond. Whether a man is simply curious about dating a Westerner, or is seriously contemplating a shared future with his gaijin sweetheart, there is plenty of sound advice and food for thought in this user-friendly guide.” — Eye-Ai magazine

And there is an amazing message I received posted on my blog here.


The book is £6.99 plus £3 to cover handling fees and postage (total due £9.99 OR ¥1,400) to anywhere in the world. Send your mailing address and phone number to after you have made payment. Payments can be accepted to a UK or Japanese bank account, or via Paypal. Please email for bank details or if you would like to order more than one copy.

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